Condoms suck, monogamous relationships with birth control are great. I hope I never have to go back. Sex without a condom is so much better than sex with a condom. And finishing inside the woman feels great for both of you. Wearing condoms sucks. If contraception is otherwise taken care of, condoms are verboten. No worries about pregnancy takes a lot of stress out of it!
If a towel is not handy, I'll reach between my legs and gleefully reveal the fruits of his labor to him. I think it's hilarious. He thinks it's repulsive. This ritual has been going on for years, as long as we've been having regular, condom-free sex. If it sounds strange, that's only because we so rarely discuss what is one of the most common problems facing sexual partners:.
The act of ejaculating is more or less guaranteed to be a messy one. That means you have to deal with a literal semen explosion pretty much every time you orgasm. Meaning, the question of ejaculation etiquette arises — where is it OK to ejaculate? How can you talk about this with your partner? If your sexual partner has a uterus, you should absolutely, positively, under no circumstances ejaculate inside them during vaginal intercourse without their consent.
Back to Pregnancy. Yes, although the risk of getting pregnant in this way is very low. If you want to avoid getting pregnant, you should use contraception. A man's semen the liquid produced when he ejaculates or "comes" contains millions of sperm.